Wednesday, 14 December 2011
Pixie Lott – What do you take me for
Can guys and girls be friends, I just watched a video on youtube, that a friend posted on facebook:
The video seems to indicate that all girls say yes and all guys say no. It then carries on to where they ask the girls if any of their guy friends fancied them, to which they said ys their guy friends did ... and thus an obvious conclusion was made.
Well some of my friends are guys and some are ladies, and I don’t think any of them fancy me (yes this includes those of bisexual or homosexual orientation). This may be due to the fact that I consider friends family and would wants to get involved with family in such a manner, nobody exactly ...
What I find confusing is that most people cannot understand this. I’m not flirtatious I’m trying to be friendly in a place where most people are miserable for no good reason to be honest, and seeing as I have to deal with folk much of the much I may as well try and deal with them in a friendly manner, they’ll be nicer towards me and thus both our days will be happier. And somewhere across the way I’ll make a friend or learn a lesson. I have yet to learn how to impart lessons to folk, seeing as sometimes I do ponder at how silly some folk can be (I consider myself pretty unlearned in life, yet there are more unlearned people then me).
Maybe it is society which is teaching the next generation to have less inhibitions and so they just express anything and everything regardless of whether these are real feelings or just a passing thought which on consideration would have never been acted upon under due consideration and thus less scarring would have been done and the cycle would not be as harsh for teh generation after this ... but those are just my thoughts on the matter.
Can guys and girls be friends, I just watched a video on youtube, that a friend posted on facebook:
The video seems to indicate that all girls say yes and all guys say no. It then carries on to where they ask the girls if any of their guy friends fancied them, to which they said ys their guy friends did ... and thus an obvious conclusion was made.
Well some of my friends are guys and some are ladies, and I don’t think any of them fancy me (yes this includes those of bisexual or homosexual orientation). This may be due to the fact that I consider friends family and would wants to get involved with family in such a manner, nobody exactly ...
What I find confusing is that most people cannot understand this. I’m not flirtatious I’m trying to be friendly in a place where most people are miserable for no good reason to be honest, and seeing as I have to deal with folk much of the much I may as well try and deal with them in a friendly manner, they’ll be nicer towards me and thus both our days will be happier. And somewhere across the way I’ll make a friend or learn a lesson. I have yet to learn how to impart lessons to folk, seeing as sometimes I do ponder at how silly some folk can be (I consider myself pretty unlearned in life, yet there are more unlearned people then me).
Maybe it is society which is teaching the next generation to have less inhibitions and so they just express anything and everything regardless of whether these are real feelings or just a passing thought which on consideration would have never been acted upon under due consideration and thus less scarring would have been done and the cycle would not be as harsh for teh generation after this ... but those are just my thoughts on the matter.
Tuesday, 13 December 2011
Big Sean ft Chris Brown – My Last
Let’s see, I was speaking to my mum who told me something as we were talking about personas. Hers is one that is very much forward so people can see how she is and so they change themselves to reflect this.
My mum then told me I hide me, inside me and so no one knows. However with society being the way they assume you are a doormat and thus treat you in this same fashion. And then I get angry and people are surprised at what I may/may not do.
I know I do ponder at what happened to me over the years, as I can still see me in my kiddie videos where I’m a loud mouth and loved being centre of stage, to me now, who behind the scenes is still a bit whacky but I prefer not being in the limelight.
Apparently I am also diplomatic in the way that I mange not to answer a direct question, but straight talking too. It’s bizarre I guess seeing as I’ve never looked at myself personally but try and see myself through other’s eyes. However another person is just a reflection of me within them and then seeing me, which can mean I am just putting me in the light I wish to be.
Am I too old to still be in this stage of self discovery, I really need to be by myself, I know I have yet to develop mentally which is really holding me back, as my distrust in people is so high.
Let’s see, I was speaking to my mum who told me something as we were talking about personas. Hers is one that is very much forward so people can see how she is and so they change themselves to reflect this.
My mum then told me I hide me, inside me and so no one knows. However with society being the way they assume you are a doormat and thus treat you in this same fashion. And then I get angry and people are surprised at what I may/may not do.
I know I do ponder at what happened to me over the years, as I can still see me in my kiddie videos where I’m a loud mouth and loved being centre of stage, to me now, who behind the scenes is still a bit whacky but I prefer not being in the limelight.
Apparently I am also diplomatic in the way that I mange not to answer a direct question, but straight talking too. It’s bizarre I guess seeing as I’ve never looked at myself personally but try and see myself through other’s eyes. However another person is just a reflection of me within them and then seeing me, which can mean I am just putting me in the light I wish to be.
Am I too old to still be in this stage of self discovery, I really need to be by myself, I know I have yet to develop mentally which is really holding me back, as my distrust in people is so high.
Friday, 9 December 2011
Kelly Rowland – Lay it on Me
Okay well update wise, erm nothing much really, just taking apart part of the extension for the house as the council don’t like the fact that it’s already been up for years, stating that the neighbour (who’s in USA whilst we’re in the UK) feels his lifestyle is being affected … oh well people have worse problems in the world so although it’s not great having no money to pay a builder and this having to take apart the family home in the cold is slightly depressing I’m thankful that I have what I have.
Makes you aware of what things people worry about in this world, and I can only hope that I become a better person having faced the small hardships I face.
It seems my whole life is rotating around getting hitched at the mo, I’m becoming quite peeved with the whole thing, seeing as how much people just want me to go fall in love, or bothering me, I don’t have a lovely voice and I don’t flirt with folk, I need to find a Will to my Grace, although apart from the fact I’m nothing like Grace …
Still gotta learn how to cook, all the weirdoes that seem to think I want a bf is beyond me, I’ve reached my years not going down that route, I’m neither disillusioned nor desperate to go outside the binds of marriage to find a partner.
Having spoken to guys, it seems that guys are waiting for some click, whatever guys may say, they have weak hearts expecting Bollywood love, as much as the fairytale love with songs is the background sounds great, it’s not great and why would you want to stumble into a marriage under the illusion of love, and later discover that it wasn’t as you thought it was, I’d rather have a guy who goes into it with open eyes and thus a more stable relationship is formed.
Meh last topic, I want an xbox kinect, so if anyone wants to give me an early birthday present you know what to get me ^_^
That’s all folks, toodles o/
Okay well update wise, erm nothing much really, just taking apart part of the extension for the house as the council don’t like the fact that it’s already been up for years, stating that the neighbour (who’s in USA whilst we’re in the UK) feels his lifestyle is being affected … oh well people have worse problems in the world so although it’s not great having no money to pay a builder and this having to take apart the family home in the cold is slightly depressing I’m thankful that I have what I have.
Makes you aware of what things people worry about in this world, and I can only hope that I become a better person having faced the small hardships I face.
It seems my whole life is rotating around getting hitched at the mo, I’m becoming quite peeved with the whole thing, seeing as how much people just want me to go fall in love, or bothering me, I don’t have a lovely voice and I don’t flirt with folk, I need to find a Will to my Grace, although apart from the fact I’m nothing like Grace …
Still gotta learn how to cook, all the weirdoes that seem to think I want a bf is beyond me, I’ve reached my years not going down that route, I’m neither disillusioned nor desperate to go outside the binds of marriage to find a partner.
Having spoken to guys, it seems that guys are waiting for some click, whatever guys may say, they have weak hearts expecting Bollywood love, as much as the fairytale love with songs is the background sounds great, it’s not great and why would you want to stumble into a marriage under the illusion of love, and later discover that it wasn’t as you thought it was, I’d rather have a guy who goes into it with open eyes and thus a more stable relationship is formed.
Meh last topic, I want an xbox kinect, so if anyone wants to give me an early birthday present you know what to get me ^_^
That’s all folks, toodles o/
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